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Refining and Being Refined
But in the very process of refining the look of my brochure in the absorption of the act, the steadfast dedication (a nicer term than "obsession"), the will to stay the course until perfection had been achieved something additional took place within me. I found that I was refining my vision of my work, as well. Nor did I consciously realize this until, when it came time to type in my tagline, I felt the desire to tinker with it, too to refine it.
This is no big deal when you are setting out to come up with a tagline. But I'd counted on its wording for two decades. I had no thought of improving it. It was the process of refining the visual context to describe and evoke my work as a book developer that went beyond the particular focus, and refined the vision of the work itself.
And so the new, improved tagline emerged unexpectedly: "Bringing Your Inner Treasures to the Outer World"!
What's the difference? I think the difference is something that's been growing inside me for a little while, without my realizing it. When I started this work in the 1980s, I was sure that the most hidden, tender things inside me exactly what needed to make their way into writing was my "stuff" alone. That the kind of sensitivities and remembrances that lived in my inner world had little place in the rough-and-tumble outer world. And so, as I began working with clients, I sought to hold for them that kind of protection of their inner treasures, assuming that others, like me at the time, were both yearning to see and show their true being in their writing, and also frightened, perhaps even ashamed, of doing so in public. This was what "Bringing Your Treasures into the World" was based on.
But in being given the refinement of the tagline now as "Bringing Your Inner Treasures to the Outer World," I realized that the old protective stance was in the process of changing. That I now feel that what is in us most authentically is exactly what will heal the world. That we have hidden our best nature away, protectively, when young, and now our world is starving for what we ourselves can give.
It is an exciting awareness, this slight refinement. It says to me that all of us have within us the deep being that we are soul-parched for in our culture. And that if we can learn to listen well enough to ourselves to articulate that being in language that speaks to both our own soul and to the universal experience, then we give to the world a great gift. We not only become the change we seek, we come into our most authentic being. And we thereby know ourselves as kindred with all other human beings.
What is the potential effect of bringing your inner treasures to the outer world? I remember being in my teens at the supermarket checkout counter, looking at the magazines (in those days, Seventeen, Vogue, Redbook, Cosmopolitan, etc.) with a sense of terrible exile. My soul sought some mirror in the outer world to tell me that I was much more than the superficial images and how-to tips staring back at me from the magazine covers. I was too young, then, and too ensconced in the world of my family, to even imagine that there were other ways of living, knowing, and being. And that one day, having found some of those other ways, I would contribute better mirrors to the culture than were provided for me at the time and that I would even be blessed enough to enable other people to contribute better mirrors through the writings of their hearts.
We think we are doing everything all by ourselves. But what if we, too, are being refined? What if we are the artistic creations of a benevolent Being that, in all that we go through our joys, our trials, our challenges the basic ore of our nature is being refined and refined and refined? What if we are being developed by God, just as we develop and refine our creative works?
In awe and gratitude, I submit that it really may work this way. It's something to consider, when we look at our lives, and look at creating works that not only come out of our lives as we know them but also that help to create, and re-create, and refine our lives as well.
I hope that you will take to heart anything here that speaks to you. If you find yourself with a wish to write a book, I will honor you and your project, and help you have the best birth possible. May you be blessed to bring your inner treasures to the awaiting outer world. •
Copyright © 2008 by Naomi Rose. All rights reserved.
** San Francisco Writing for Change Conference (SFWritingforChange.org)
Naomi Rose, Book Developer and Writing Coach, has successfully used her "Writing from the Deeper Self" approach to help people with an inner-directed focus write the books of their hearts. More »