Creating Growth Through Innovation
By Bob Eckert | Updated 4/15/16
Fear. It can keep you alive. And it can kill you. It's a powerful, unpleasant emotion that causes us to pay attention to our surroundings with great vigilance so that we can react as quickly as possible to any potential danger coming our way before it's TOO LATE! That vigilance keeps us alive.
Conversely, it can kill us when it keeps us from doing the smart thing. Like when we stomp our foot hard on the brake (of our non-anti-lock-brake-equipped car), and keep it stomped causing us to skid over the cliff, instead of pumping the brakes and steering around the curve safely. If we hadn't had a fear-induced reaction, we could have avoided a bumpy "flight with no beverage service due to short duration."
In the world of human interaction and innovation, fear has its advantages and disadvantages as well. It helps inventiveness when our fear of loss causes us to be vigilant for new opportunities so we see and act on them before the competition does. This is why the research (and our professional experience) shows that the organizations that are most likely to engage in deliberate innovation on an enterprise-wide basis are those in "distress situations," meaning when the fear of failure is staring you in the face, and the fear motivates you to take drastic action.
Interpersonally, it helps us when our fear prompts us to act to improve a relationship or apologize for a wrong-doing because we anticipate a loss in respect, rapport, effectiveness or credibility from others if we let ourselves live our lives with low emotional intelligence.
The problem with fear as a motivator is that we human beings fall into a pattern where fear is the most common and most powerful motivator, which means that too much of our thinking and choice-making becomes fear-based. This is, of course, perfectly excusable (yet not right) from the perspective of humans evolving and learning. Primitive people learned that it was more important to keep vigilant for predators and enemies as they hunted and gathered than it was to find the fattest deer or the plumpest berry. Those that were most vigilant for danger were those most likely to survive to find food and reproduce. We're wired as a species to have our danger-avoidance functions take precedence over our pleasure-seeking functions (except in the area of sexuality, but that's another newsletter, or perhaps another website). So the modern trap is that we are vigilant for danger far more than we need to be in our safe, modern and relatively new environment. What are the effects of fear?
What is not excusable in our contemporary world is to stay thoughtlessly stuck in the primitive patterns driven by fear of newness that kept us alive in primitive times. It's time to manage our thinking.
What might the world be like if we were able to consciously over-ride unproductive fear patterns? What might happen in the world if we had less fear and more curiosity?
It's time to be inoculated with the anti-fear virus.
There is already a global pandemic. A pandemic of fear. We've become so used to it that we've forgotten that we don't have to be afraid.
It is possible to be more curious than fearful. It is possible for humans to thoughtfully distinguish between "danger" and simply "new." It is possible to create a new "normal" where curious questioning and thoughtful connecting are the habit of the land. And the inoculation is quick and painless. It's a simple decision.
A decision that crowds fear out of our consciousness and off of our fear receptors. We make it at the moment we stop looking for ways to make change easier and less fear-filled. When we just choose to change, and do so. Bang. You've accepted the anti-fear virus. Symptoms: Bravery, Action, Innovation.
Choose. To be vigilant for unproductive fear-based stories running around in your head, leaving muddy footprint that are hard to clean. Catch those twinges as soon as you notice them. Then replace fear-promoting mental stories with those that tell of the rewards of curiosity; the social status that is achieved as we mature ourselves into more emotionally intelligent beings. Remind yourself every hour of every day of the positive, productive and problem-solving world you are helping create. Be willing to be the one who starts it all by being the "Patient Zero" in the antifear epidemic. Start something great.
Finally, we leave you with the sage advice of Miss Frizzle, the wisest cartoon character we have ever known, and driver of the Magic School Bus (don't know who she is? Ask your favorite kid): "Take chances. Make mistakes. Get messy!" Go ahead, don't be afraid be brave!
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